Local Chubby Chaser Disappointed When Meeting Online Girlfriend

by staff on June 9, 2009

Stewart and Melissa finally meet

Stewart and Melissa finally meet

SORRENTO VALLEY — After 128 emails, 433 text messages, 19 phone calls, and 4 weeks of anticipation, Stewart Wright and Melissa Bell — two cyber-daters that discovered each other on a local personals site — finally decided to meet each other for the first time.

“I was so sure it was going to be love at first sight,” said Stewart. “I felt like I was going to meet my soulmate.”

However, Stewart’s dream was crushed when Melissa showed up to his doorstep weighing 110 pounds, a full 50 pounds less than in the pictures she had sent him.

“Physical attraction is very important to me,” said Stewart.  “I prefer that the women I date be large and in charge, if you know what I mean. I know the camera can add 10 pounds, but there’s no way it could have added 50. I really felt deceived,” he added.

Melissa was aware that her weight loss might come up as a conversation topic during their date, but she didn’t think it would totally derail the chemistry they had built up during the previous weeks.

“It’s true. I did send Stewart older photos that were taken when I was heavier, but I wasn’t trying to deceive him,” said Bell. “Those are the only digital pictures I have of myself.”

Despite the major mental setback in Stewart’s mind, he was somehow able to muster enough enthusiasm to proceed with their dinner plans at Le Pho — the finest (and only) french restaurant in Mira Mesa.

“The date was a little awkward,” said Melissa.  “He kept ordering extra noodle-filled croissants for me, then insisted that I have dessert.”

After dinner Stewart insisted on going to a carnival in Santee.  While at the carnival, the two spent most of their time looking into fun house mirrors, which made Melissa feel even more uncomfortable.

“He kept placing me in front of the mirror that makes people look fat,” said Melissa. “When he looked at me through that mirror, he seemed dazed, as if he was in a trance, with his hands in his pockets.”

At the end of the date, Stewart gave Melissa a hug and wished her goodnight.

He explained, “When I gave Melissa a hug at the end of the night, my hands were able to touch each other…that’s never happened to me before.  It’s going to take some getting used to.”

{ 22 comments }

David June 11, 2009 at 6:51 am

Well if Stewart ever meets the right girl it will be worth the weight.

trena vargas July 23, 2011 at 8:41 am

I weigh 220 pound, but hold my weight gorgeously and I’m pretty beautiful. If anyone knows of any true men that have their own stuff, life and their own financial status (because I’m done with being taken advantage of) I’m a great person inside and out and have a sparkling sense of humor. Find me an amazing man please 🙂

mike August 24, 2011 at 2:36 pm

Trena, you sound awesome. Email me; I’m interested and I’m a good guy. I have my own stuff ( job, house, car, life, etc.) and I’m not at all bad looking.

trena vargas October 23, 2011 at 6:48 am

hi mike ty for your message. I definitelym a great catch all the WY n around and m quite beautiful, I dint know how a person is to directly contact another on here, but I have to say that I was going thru a bit of a rough patch n especially didnt know that this was splattered all over the internet under my name. Gosh websites! Lol. N e how. I m with my most handsome adorable n worships the ground I walk on n takes great care of me n mines as well. N we r just happilyever after. Again ty, but my wonderfulman n I have plans today and enjoy eachother with every moment ;0)

trena vargas October 29, 2011 at 5:13 pm

HEY MIKE…HI :0)…I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THAT ABOUT ME, BUT I AM A FREE N EXTREMELY HAPPY PERSON. I WOULD ENJOY MEETING U N SEEING HOW WE GET ALONG. IT WOULD HELP IF I HAD UR EMAIL ADDRESS, “BUT” I AM GOING TO DISPLAY MINE N HOPEFULLY I DONT RUN INTO ANY WEIRDOS, BUT IT HAPPENS…SHOOT I EVEN DATED THE WORST SCHIZOPHRenic BIPOLAR WEIRDO THAT EVERYONE SHOULD BE AWARE OF (HIS NAME IS JOHN NEAL). I AM ALL FOR HELPING OUT WOMAN…SO “YOUR WELCOME IN ADVANCE LADIES” ;0). ANYHOW, MY EMAIL IS LOVMILOT@GMAIL.COM AND I HAVE BEAUTIFULPHOTOS OF MY TRUE SELF AND VERY RECENT. I DONT WEIGH THAT AND LOOK AMAZING FOR NOT BEING A SIZE ZERO…I
MY WEIGHT N CURVES GORGEOUSLY. SO WHETHER ITS MIKE OR WHOEVER, SINCE THIS IS JUST SO CURIOUS AND OUT ON A LIMB. PLEASE BE RESPECTFUL AND HAVE A WONDERFUL SENSE OF HUMOR (WHICH IS DEFINETELY A KEY ELEMENT). THIS WILL BE EXCITING AND FILLED WITH CURIOSITY AT THGE SAME TIME. I DO.NOT JUDGE OR DISCRIMINATE.

trena vargas February 2, 2012 at 2:08 pm

Well I guess its true what they say; “anything you have placed on a website or even getting a hacker/virus or are just plain filling out info./or paying your bills on the internet just gives people easy access to your info. And display it as such. I am the real trena and none of that info. Above is remotely true about myself or my life! Someone bored and confused just abused my name and made a mockery of themself. THIS IS PROOF THAT THIS TYPE OF IMMATURE BEHAVIOR HAPPENS. I guess I should feel fortunate that my well kept fotos havent been
abused. KEEP IN MIND PEOPLE THAT THIS SITE CLEARLY STATES THAT ITS “FAKE”!

John Neal February 25, 2012 at 4:59 pm

I love you Trena Vargas

trena vargas March 6, 2012 at 1:01 am

hi mike and john- im hungry!

John Neal March 6, 2012 at 1:06 am

Would you like your favorite 10 carne asada tacos and california burrito?

trena vargas March 6, 2012 at 1:08 am

no you bipolar a$$ i told you im on a diet already now stop killing game im here for mike.

trena vargas March 6, 2012 at 12:19 pm

Hi everyone, it’s me again! I am still looking for an amazing man hello are you out there? I figured this was an easy and inexpensive way of finding a mate. Please John, stop harrassing me I have told you i am so done with you. But you are more than welcome to takeme out to eat yum you know my favoruite Carne Asada Fries with lots of guacamole and sour cream, i love my georguos curves and so do all the BLACK males i have dated …get at me guys. lovmelotssomeblkmans@gmail.com

trena vargas March 10, 2012 at 2:44 pm

So sad. Well there are quite a few trenas in the world, so who knows who these bored people are speaking of; whoever she is, you all just made her a celebrity talk of this site. She must be some female to leave such an impression on you guys. It just sounds like you all our scorned “GREAT JOB VARGAS”! I am a t.vargas and am caucasian and married to an hispanic, but if I wasnt;; I would love to be this bold, brave and makes all envious of her (obviously, since you all have proven that) keep up the good work vargas and knock em dead, as I see you are one by one. Now this is what I love to see; a strong female that doesn’t even know she’s causing all this chaos, by just simply being herself. No wonder why your all are the way you are. Probably mad that you either can’t have her or wish you were like her or even maybe have what she has. Whatever the reason is. SHE WON, IM PROUD OF YOU FOR ALL WOMAN MS. TRENA VARGAS!

trena vargas March 21, 2012 at 12:25 pm

Hey trena, I don’t know any of you, but sweetheart; whoever John Neal is, is the guy who was being himself by saying that about 10 tacos and California Burrito and clearly imitating your name (look at the time stamp and date line sweetheart, I feel so sorry for you in dealing with a male of several mental and social issues ~like racist and manic disorders) I’m sorry and do admit that I am writing under your name and reason being is that this guy is not someone I want bothering me. Trena if I were you, I would get this guys history checked out because I worked at a mental hospital called atascadero and we had a John Neal there for years and would not have allowed him to go (because clearly he was and obviously still is a danger to society and IM sorry you fell victim to him, just always know that we are here to help you and will) this male coversing with himself in and out of manic rage has myself questioning what drug depency issues he is dealing with. John neal, we are here to help you, please contact us anytime to help you or just to talk. Im sure we can start off where we finished and we know that you weren’t ready for release, but your time ran out. Listen to your reasoning voice mr. neal, not your irrational one. Lets work together as we did in here and make life worth living for yourself and no one else.

Monica Ochoa March 21, 2012 at 5:39 pm

I’m not sure what’s going on with you Trena , but John is with me now and you’re the past. You lose!

Rebecca santos March 27, 2012 at 7:27 pm

lmfao hey Dumbass monica. That chic t.vargas obviously do not want that syko punk and keeps trying to rid herself of him and read bitch, his gay ass is off the wagon train and wont leave her ass alone. So your the loser thinking you won just one more dumb bitch lmfao, you deserve him and not another person wants him stupid lmfao. Your guys kids are gointo be retarded like you ghys, yea the world is coming to an end, especially your guys. Waitwaitwaitwait lmfffao I bet that John Neal guy is you lmfao. Yea your him, blood you need help and by the way punk nigga i’m black, Les do dis motherfucker!

John Neal March 29, 2012 at 9:50 am

I love black women. Call me Rebecca, ill give u what u been needing.

trena vargas April 4, 2012 at 5:12 pm

John Neal
stop stalking the dating sites looking for lonely women to take advantage of i still see your profile on several sites you are a wierdo my friend i guess you should keep a better eye on your man Monica lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

John Neal April 6, 2012 at 6:13 pm

I love you Trena and miss you

John Neal April 6, 2012 at 6:14 pm

Text me Trena

unknowingly beautiful August 21, 2012 at 12:45 am

Im looking for a guy who can do everything to me and everything for me and make sure you can handle me and my curves because Im all that and you will be taking me out and spending money on me to eat and eat up your ass because i said so

Trena Vargos September 2, 2012 at 4:37 pm

I Gabe no idea who is trying too be me. I an the real real Trena. I am 5’2 350 lbs with big brown nipples and long black hair. I wear a size 11 shoe and love my men with pockets and low self esteem. I love to suck Dick and for three right money I will eat pussy too. I never graduated high school so I need a McCann too take care of me and my kids. if you eat the pussy and like taking care of a bitch call me at 614-457-5865.

Kelleh September 8, 2012 at 6:04 pm

uhm… This “Trena” and other desperados are really harshing my comment buzz. This coming from a real girl who has no problem getting real men, without needing the internet. Do yourselves a goodie and find a flesh and blood man. These are all trolls here.

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